I posted something in the group and he replied to it immediately, like trying to start a convoand I felt triggered. A pursuing, step up man will contact me some other way and ask me about it, or not, but he will continue pursuing. Its just FB, and I think he did her a favor. . She felt a real connection with him, a real interest in him as a person, and the fun times they had were off the charts for her. I told him I did not want to see him again there were tears in his eyes . I wasnt even there. Or worse, what if Im just putting these other guys off as I wait for Crack Fix to step up and propose in a few months (I have a feeling that is how its going to go, if I can keep things as sireny and healthy as they are now on my end)? But I dont think Im willing to take a no from a man. other people are posting on health too. The account helped me a acceptable deal. I mean she is very easy to connect with and accepted him entirely the way he was, while I didntso its no surprise what happened. So anyway, the point ishe was abusive. Thats when we can feel we deserve to be loved and let others in our heart. When I turned 14 or so I lost that anger. Because if that person is let to do that, then others will, and and after a short while while the tread builds, there wont be anymore nice guys to find in other places, as they will all take on the same influence we allow them to. I can drop this man hehe! So I text back Thank you and actually I am going to say no (to meeting up today). But they should be allowed to be this way. Also emotions are contagious and whatever we put out there most likely will get reflected back to us. We wont be happy in the end when weve done nothing to discipline each other, and sharpen each other, and then end up with myriads of people unfriendly and deleting and being rude. I feel hopelessness I do not want a man who is does not want to be by my side supporting me standing by me as part of a team singing from the same hymn sheet on issues like this. Sweetie Babes reading nook has returned! Hello Rori Raye, Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. He treats me so well when I see him, and hes eager to see me whenever Im in his hometown, however at times he forgets or doesnt get back to me about meeting up. Anonymous #1. The attraction does feel different though. Not at all the same thing as those walking around oblivious. Yes, u right, thats why i feel turned off by it not a manly quality, hmmhow would a manly man act? There should be care everywhere and awareness of inter-caring and being responsibly for EACH OTHER in society. I came out of a 9 year relationship last summer and dating has gone really badly since, I cant seem to attract anyone except occasional one offs, despite being attractive and in my opinion good company. I guess lately I have just been looking for a more serious relationship. I asked her to delete me this time, but she didn't. Wtf should he even care? It feels weird to put myself out there. THANK YOU for the comment about my story . I want to support him but am not sure how to do that within the fem/masc dynamic. It is not what I want, but Im still HOLDING ON. Hes a model/actor and I find him Awesome! And that feels good. Open just means pelvis open. ZZZZZ SOOOOOOOOOOOOO BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i dont want that again and it wont feel good. I cant find much excuse for THAT either. Very rarely did a guy try to do that to me. My friend told me that her brother was sooo into me it wasnt funny. Really society is too lenient towards all this and its wrong. Well just finished a phone call with Mr P he called me even when I said it will be late as I have Zumba. It does seem that he wants to see youwhy else would he not want to mail your stuff or leave it for you at your house in an envelopeand why would he drive by your place. . Other than that just try move on, get over her. Should you confront him or acting all cool like its nothing much? Im a proponent of not in a stupid dumb I trust all way as you say. I left you 3 messages asking you Isnt it much more efficient live when you can answer in a split second w a tone of voice? I was aware that Ive felt that way in the past, but I never really put it together until right now. Weary of it. id rather just actually go slow by accepting dates and attention only when it feels good to me, and if it becomes an issue for him, THEN address it with a little speechy thing. We can be annoyed, feel pressured to fix it, etcbut this is all PERCEPTION AND CHOICE. I do have hypergraphia. What started out to be appreciated ended up being expected,. So, for me, its hard to go on those first dates from a website, where they guy is treating it like a third date simply because he feels that he knows so much about me already. I havent sent him a request and he hasent sent me one. Love, Rori. Wow, thank u for sharing this story:) yes, indeed u havent post it for a while, u said :I feel really vulnerable saying this to you, and scared. I believe all relationships are different. She has probably lost most or all of her feelings of respect, attraction and love for you. Then when one does we want to run away from him. Basically in a nutshell, times have changed. I should be cutting down on coffee (noooo!!!! I kept admiring my reflection even through the little voices that alternated between you have nothing to admire and vanity is considered a sin by many for a reason. I have. The truth is I wanted to try be friends but WAIT before doing that. You just did the riffing healing thats what your last post was so now an easier more comfortable way to ease in there is going to show up! Its for the same reason you might remove a girl, or a guy, or anyone. Thankyou, and I agree. What am I supposed to do? I feel your comments are very harsh and just awful generalisations . But it made me cold and distant. Even we Americans cant change that. absolutely soaking wet, SLV! ((VW)) cry it out!! I sent him a message to congratulate him and said I know they will make great parents. So, if youve ever been in a situation where a man you met did not seem attractive to you, but he would not leave you alone, hed call you repeatedly, and continued to ask you out, you know that you met HIS subconscious criteria, but he didnt meet yours. And everyone. Maybe he wants to see you. Its no wonder so many being at a loss as to why they cant find love that also has commitment. He puts a smile on and is very friendly to both of them, but we all can feel the f*ck u vibe and attitude. Even if you do get someone to do for you what you need to be doing for yourself, is it making you feel joyful and secure? Weeding out your FB list and choosing only those with whom you wish to maintain emotionally intimate friendships (this means you NEVER friend a man you are dating unless hes your boyfriendand if that ends, and he does not become your husbandyou can choose to unfriend him. I thought about how much I hate when someone says to me, There are many men, and many options and choices, and many ways I can achieve success with my businesses. the men in this era have no been disciplined, and have no notion at all what its like to NOT get what they want, after a little crying and whining. We cant always do it alone, but asking for help is very different than asking someone to do it for you. People are experiencing this a lot, good and bad people alike. But even just thinking about it is getting me kind of excited. On gchat. If they hurt, they may not be broken, but they do need healing. But I also just dont see how. After those words I feel very very small. A few weeks later, I unfriended him on FB. Except, in my case actually, what I see is that I am attracting nothing but Workaholic mennot interested in cding new workaholics. What to Do When Your Crush Blocks You on Facebook? What a weenie!! Thank you for your words! Whenever she found herself getting angry at her husbands lack of discipline, she attended to her own sense of discipline in taking care of herself. I love me. So I never treat it like anything but a first date. I think Im attracted to Recycled because I really love sensitive men with a hard edgeand he has that. I found out they have been having relationship issues where she is insecure about him chasing other women and afraid of him leaving her once he finds someone else. Feels good to me to go home to my family ALONE, so thats what will bewhat feels good to ME. Take an ACTION outside of your comfort zone. I have been tiny bit familiar of this your broadcast offered vivid clear idea. The other thing, I could look in the mirror and say: well Ive aged. I honestly think they need some discipliningthey are not taking responsibility to their actions. Even if I do feel hopeless, Im firmly rooted in positivity . Well he was ok we kisses goodbye then he text me the next day and we were good but now I go on Facebook and I see he to cut someone off with no explanation, when they KNOW your emotions are involved is immature. My experience with online dating is that the online part is much larger than the dating part. It feels so good to check in and see how everyone is doing these days! I noticed that when I just lean back and reaaaally focus on me and taking care of me when im feeling that way, they come back with even stronger feelings for me. What can I do about this? I have found that just when I think I just cant take anymore, the clouds clear. My man is lovely, sweet, affectionate, kind, caring, respectful of women, and more. I know he has been on Match but is not subscribed and therefore cant actually communicate with anyone. Not only is it easier on me emotionally, as someone who is often triggered in the way i perceive other people as viewing me or treating me negatively, to not even GO there unnecessarily, but not believing what someone else says/insists about their intention is just plain rude. I echo your thoughts too LykaIve been in whats developing to be an exclusive relationship too.with a long distance guy..so even though I may have engaged in this blog, starting this past spring before I met him, I still check in once in a while..but what I read and what resonates with me has shifted now to maintaining a good soft outside and strong inside vibe to stay healthy in this relationship.I find Roris tools work well for that too.because I still get triggered from past experiences.but LD is a gentleman and totally steps up and shows me that he has many qualities of Mr. Right.if I wasnt practicing Roris tools i think Id have sabotaged this long time ago lol. Sometimes if im feeling drained Ill not answer, and i always say thank you for the compliment if he calls me beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, or says anything nice abuot me or teh profile. There is nothing you are demanding that is out of place or wrong. So I still have pangs here and there, but my job, and the way I relate to others, has become far less of a panic-inducing trigger fest. I usually dont like being in the centre of attention and dont like feeling interrogated. He will at some point be back for you. They have some really good dance exercise videos and theyre so much fun that its not difficult to find the incentive to do them. Can that be true, at least a little? , Wow, just found something to be happy about during pms . http://www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/lovescripts im simply not afraid of scammers for some reason, thank your for blessing me and the people whos soul and wisdom are touched by this story, Ella also i might even say, it would feel better to talk on the phone, i dont want to chat right now im at [number], id likely say this cuz i Dont want to go to the bother of it, oh i felt moved and i felt chest heaves and tearing up reading this love story to the end from Roris eletter. And it makes me think about the guy that I hooked up with twice, who I havent seen in a really long time, but hes still there, on Facebook. I called her and she neither did pick nor call me back. So I call her and she says why dont ya answer your FB messages? Then I see people who are miserable, angry, morose. But, sigh, now that I think about it, hes never treated me all that well. and I know it isnt. We have to take responsibility for each other. My next words were, No Harm. Thanks. my kidneys (and my pee) is all healed up. I use that term loosely, we were together for three years. He was RUDE to me, he was completely terrible, and he cut me right off. Thought she wouldnt notice me blocking her or whatever the case. I believe you when you say you are sweet and nice inside, but the rest, nope. I have no clue what he was thinking, and wasnt about to ask. You mention that the need for closure is just seen by men as drama so Im surprised to see you get so upset about it. all you gotta do, is hang on to yourself and remember your story and the desire your heart made to the moon. For the record if a girl doesnt call you back, or says shes busy she isnt interested. Im not going to lie. LOL LOL LOL that just made me chuckleimagining he and I being like two girls!! He said he spent a half hour trying to log-in to his webmail because he wanted to stay in touch. I know he has commented on other peoples (women) profiles from cyber stalking them. I feel afraid to say what do you think? because I feel afraid of being placated and I feel mistrustful that he is able to step up. Did I Why isnt my pro decorating license showing up? A lot of people remove their exs on social media for their own healing. The only way to win is to live to be soft again to trust again not n a stupid dumb I trust all way but in a way they have to prove themselves. 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