And it certaintly won't help you get him back. I know how hard it is to have to contemplate that you may never have her in your life. You're doing good though to keep fighting, you have the right attitude. Why There's Never, Ever Anything Wrong With You. I know how tough it is, i totally empahize with you. Its hard to .css-16acfp5{-webkit-text-decoration:underline;text-decoration:underline;text-decoration-thickness:0.125rem;text-decoration-color:#d2232e;text-underline-offset:0.25rem;color:inherit;-webkit-transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;}.css-16acfp5:hover{color:#000;text-decoration-color:border-link-body-hover;background-color:yellow;-webkit-transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;}move on from a relationship and say goodbye to someone you previously had (or still have) feelings for. Just to add, I have asked him to just tell me if he doesn't want to be with me, he wants to make this easier for me and I told him that would, but he said he can't tell me that because he won't lie to me. I totally agree with what you are saying, I deserve someone who respects and loves me as much as I do them, and I don't doubt that my Adam isn't capable of it. She already knows it so no need to tell her again. These men have all been there. I was exactly the same as you with the gym. Or should i just leave it and continue with the month freeze out? So instead of not saying a straight "no" she replied with a long text that said at the end "but i hope we can be friends" which i then sent a reply about why i didn't want to be friends with her as i felt like she'd betrayed me, followed by a conversation which actually wasn't too bad, but ended up with her crying saying to me "we can be friends if you want us to be", but i explained i couldn't as i needed to get past this now and that i didn't want to be hearing stuff about her as it would hurt me. But it dosen't mean that I didn't love her, and I will always treated her with the outmost respect, care and love. Now it's 6 years later, I've gotten over him and the relationship, moved on to other wonderful guys, and basically hadn't really thought about him in years. Do guys come back to you when they're ready? It's just so hard to live knowing that you lost a girl you truly truly loved, but was not ready in your life to commit to her. I am going to continue to push myself to stay occupied and not have any contact, our friends are doing a really good job of keeping both of us occupied apart from one another (I think more so me than him because none of them think he made the right choice). But Suddenly I get a message from him saying he's been thinking about me lately. I even had to leave work early today by taking some lieu time cos i was so physically and emotionally shattered. i shouldn't have to be making all the effort to sort out a relationship, i don't deserve that. You sound like you've got the right idea already. And i blanked it, to make myself scarce. I hope that is of some help? He was until a little while ago where he started taking us and me for granted, he has told me that he isn't in the right state right now to give me what I deserve, which makes me happy that he knows that. Why should you be his fall back? Firstly though, i'll apologise if it's a bit garbled and mixed up - i've had such a **** couple of days these 2 days. Any comment really! Leaving no forwarding contact information, I was heart broken for years and still think of her to this day. It absolutely kills me to think this, thinking about all the stuff you were looking forward to doing and that now it'll never happen. And it got to the "i can't go on like this" thoughts. She listened but told me that she wanted to move on and wanted to stop talking because, if we did, she wouldn't be able to. My ex is abusing me psychologically in exactly the same way. The only thing that has now improved my attitude slightly is that i went for a crazy burst on the rowing machine down the gym, although that did seem to give me some sort of disturbind tracheal spasm?! Just be polite and don't play games. Try to keep him at the back of your mind by doing other stuff. Or, text and ask how she's doing from time to time. I absolutely think that it is fine to let her know how you feel about her. So if she doesn't then you're getting on with things. During our relationship, I was afraid to make a big commitment to her and she often told me that I needed to prioritize her in my life. It's hard to move on from a relationship and say goodbye to someone you previously had (or still have) feelings for. It's so hard when you love a person like you've never loved anyone else. I stayed in bed doing nothing for a good 4-5 weeks and trust me it gets your absolutely no where. The last time i saw her was actually about 4 1/2 months ago, but we broke up 7 months ago. It wasnt in a bad way i said it, we were just chatting and i said that was the easiest way for me to get over it. Yes. That I was perfect to him yet back then he was not in the place in his life to appreciate it. Go ahead and if you're seeing her (face to face is best) or in a personal letter if there in NC, and let her know what you've just articulated: Put on a funny movie or something like that. I missed her a lot. Rick. Then i went to gym again. We know and understand your pain. He said it's just not working out. There'll be plenty of other guys out there for you eventually. *Some names have been changed to allow subjects to speak freely on private matters. We will all get through this, we don't know what the future holds so we shouldn't dwell on it, easier said than done, but enjoy what you have right now, we need to rediscover ourselves and do things that make us happy, be selfish, our ex's are . Then slowly but surely i started eating again. That is what is killing me and causing all my anxiety. Plus it burns up some energy and makes you tired so you should be able to sleep better. I know im supposed to give it at least a months window before contact. She stood by my during those 2.5 years and use to tell me how she knew I could just be the best boyfriend ever. Cos you don't wanna be looking back on this in a couple of years and think "i messed up those exams cos of thinking about her i'm still paying the price with this **** job". I'm not ready for a relationship right nowLet's be friends. If you wanna mope for a bit after you've got all that sorted for the day then do that. She consumes my thoughts!!! It's ok to have a bit of a mope every now and again i reckon, but don't let it dominate your day to the extent that you aren't doing what you need to get done. As i did this, she drew away and has been quite distant for the last two months. I know that's easier said than done cos i think about her all the time too, but i try to avoid moping. I'm at this point at the mo, it's not eased much yet let me tell you, but i think eventually i will be able to think back and say "actually it's not as bad now, not on my mind as much now as it was then". I might have over done it and pushed her away. Now I Want Her Back. I've been hesitant because of the age gap (I'm 25 she's 18) and she has needy tendencies. I can't advise much on that though as it hasn't happened to me yet! I tried to see her more, but she refused. Hey guys, AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally registered trademarks of Ziff Davis Canada, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without explicit permission. Does she have a personality and qualities that are needed for a long term relationship?? As i havent replied to her text, will that make me look like im purposely freezing her out? The thing is, i know this girl and she changes her mind all the time. .css-16fbwkt{display:block;font-family:GraphikBold,Helvetica,Arial,Sans-serif;font-weight:bold;margin-bottom:0;margin-top:0;-webkit-text-decoration:none;text-decoration:none;}@media (any-hover: hover){.css-16fbwkt:hover{color:link-hover;}}@media(max-width: 48rem){.css-16fbwkt{font-size:1.05rem;line-height:1.2;margin-bottom:0.25rem;}}@media(min-width: 40.625rem){.css-16fbwkt{font-size:1.28598rem;line-height:1.2;}}@media(min-width: 48rem){.css-16fbwkt{font-size:1.39461rem;line-height:1.2;margin-bottom:0.5rem;}}@media(min-width: 64rem){.css-16fbwkt{font-size:1.23488rem;line-height:1.3;}}Sharing Your Inter-Abled Marriage With the World, 17 Women on Why They Actually Love Giving Blowjobs. Guess what - i lost all the weight i'd spent a while and put a lot of hard work into putting on and then some more on top of that. He broke up because he wasn't ready for the next stage in life. 2.) Sometimes, you know if. help, By entering this site you declare After the meal we had, she text me saying "Thanks so much for the meal, i know you'll do well". My heart is still with her and I'm doing my best to keep on fighting! Also she had too much work to do. Anyway, so guys you are not alone in continuing to go through this hell, i thought it might be comforting to know i'm still getting it really bad at times, really really bad. Either way we all have to work towards what we want or who we want in life and not only so but treat that person with 1000%, take it easy life is precious. 4.) I truly hope that with time she will realize that I am now different man than when I was 22 and ready for her. My ex is abusing me psychologicaly! Hi regrets just saw your tread and as a caring human being would like to share my opinion? Maybe just give yourself half an hour or an hour to have a mope and a think about it. I will always love her and don't want to lose hope. I am going through the same thing right now only my boyfriend is the one who is having the life problems, I don't know what to do, he is my first love and I miss him so much, I have always wanted what we had and now it is gone, he gives me hope that it will be back but he doesn't know how long it will take him. Man i think of her all the time i tell you it's all the time, but i force myself not to contact her. Maybe they shouldn't have ended things. It'll maybe be a bit of a living hell for you wondering if/when she's gonna contact you, but i'm afraid you'll just have to put up with it til it starts to ease. If you saw your future with someone you'd want to be with them now wouldn't you, you wouldn't say oh well we'll see later on, i'm not sure what i think at the moment. I appreciated his messages but a little unsettled by what he said. We've been dating for 3 months now, but he said he is not ready to commit for now. I dunno if she'll come back, maybe she will, maybe she won't. Weve been together ever since (22 years), and now we go on every adventure together. Adam, The moment of my regret was when she turned her back to walk away from me, in tears. She isn't really at the age to settle down although it does happen. Even though she told me about 3 times that she needed to think and then turned me down, she didn't ever say anything like that she thinks we'll end up together, so consequently i haven't now got any hope left. Attention Ladies: A baby doesn't make a man commit, Boyfriend broke up with me because he wasn't ready for commitment. You don't know for absolute certain she's not coming back, but you have to try to move forward, or at least don't let yourself fall back to the state where you can't do anything. It's like a drug man, I feel the need to hear her voice, to hold her in my arms. Generally though if she doesn't actually ask you anything, then i don't think you should bother replying. The point is though that you should wait to let her contact you for sure, no questions. I lift weights and i'm thinking about her, but i'm also thinking about making sure i lift those **** weights cos that is one thing i can achieve and get something out of. You see for me, I think this has become slightly easier because, even though it's not gone the way i wanted it to, at least i'm 99.9% sure she's not going to be coming back. And you.. I'm glad you've got some encouragment from my post. I realized I really couldnt do that much better, because she was great and I didnt appreciate her enough. Doug, I didnt think shed be a type of girl Id marry, and we didnt have as much in common as I wanted, but I realized it was because I wouldnt let her in that much and didnt put in a lot of effort to do things together or share in each other's interests. I agree with the working out, I am a fit girl and I am starting to try to get into a routine to help with my self esteem and feel good about myself again, I need to learn how to do that for me and you should too. I wouldnt act like i wanted to be with her, just be non needy, and chat like friends. Thats when I knew I lost a really great girl. Miles, I miss the way my ex used to touch my hair and just curl up next to me. Then the person can move on as i am now able to do. Hey Guys, I'm sorry to hear about your situation, it sounds like you're also have a really hard time of it right now. Apply this here,except with you and your EX who you've had a relationship with and who is currently distrustful and emotionally distant from you. As I was walking through all that history, I kept wishing I had someone to share it with. do you ever see them? I will get through. They didnt have good conversations, not as sexual, just lacked in stuff [my ex and I] had. The way i look at it now is don't talk to her and then i ain't gonna be going back to not wanting to eat and then not wanting to go down the gym. I regret all of that last period of contact though, totally regret it. In the meantime, it's driving me crazy to think of her with other people. Actually, I didn't love her, she was/is a selfish, idiot asshole, but my nice, idiot, fucking asshole heart still wanted to love her, because SHE LOVED ME. That he thought I was one of the sweetest most genuine girls he's known. We walked away not liking each other and having bad feelings. Good luck. I then spent 6 months trying to get her back to no avail. If she doesn't then you're on your way to slowly recovering. My Boyfriend and I Broke Up After 7 Months Because He Wasn't Ready For a Serious Relationship. Our product picks are editor-tested, expert-approved. This time something has to be different. Being a man ***** so much sometimes, we cant help but mess these things up. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. I still wake up in the morning really early thinking about her, it's normal, just don't worry about it. Hope that help you. Table of Contents hide 1 Regret Breaking Up With Her Months Later 1.1 I Regret Dumping Her Reddit 1.2 Dumpers Regret Timeline Reddit 1.3 I Regret Not Committing To Her Reddit 1.4 Breaking Up Saved Our Relationship Reddit 1.5 Immediately Regret Breaking Up Reddit 1.6 I Regret Dumping A Nice Guy Reddit 1.7 I Dumped Continue reading "Regret Breaking Up With Her Months Later" If you've ever broken up with someone, you know it sucks. I will give it a bit more time of NC to let her cool off and work on myself more and clear my thoughts more. He can earn a lot in his life but meeting a good person and getting their pure unconditional love is not that much easier.. So keep up the good work, don't be contacting her. It's only slowly, you won't even notice it, but it does happen very very slowly. 3 Signs He Might, 7 Things I've Learned About Men Who Are Afraid Of Commitment, The Worst Thing You Can Do When He Hasn't Called, Three Things You Can Do When Hes Getting Emotionally Distant. If she is talking to you and visiting with you, she is in your life and she cares. I've been reading all your posts with interest. How I wish I had a time machine to fix things. And now she is married to that guyso theres that. Damian*, All my other ex girlfriends have cried like crazy or yelled at me or we got in a big fight and the break-up didnt end well. She knows you too well. We were both each others first love. Hi dear nice to meet you I am Esther, E-mail me at (. Keep up the avoidance of contact as it is no help. You may also . Should I just send a quick text message apologizing for my emotional state right after the break up and that giving each other space is the best thing possible? p.s I saw him at work (we are both lifeguards and swimming instructors at one of the city pools) and he looked like ****, and people at work guessed because of his over happiness, and then he looks so sad when no one is around. Will not be doing anything silly in the mean time . On another note, I did tell her that I loved her and that I wanted to to commit and how important she was to me when we broke up. Here, they share the moments they've regretted breaking up with someone and not giving the relationship more time and attention. So now i'm starting again getting back into the gym and i'm feeling good about it. After this long of a time after a break up? In your case it's come at a really bad time with all your studying, but you have to do this for yourself cos nobody else is going to do it for you. Before you repursue her, make sure that it is not just your desire to not be rejected. Take all the time you please. Im in a different place now and not the same person i was before. I could just tell by the look in her eyes she didn't feel the same anymore. And then try and meet up with her, being a new confident, attractive person. 14 People Reveal The Thing That Made Them Regret Losing Their Partners. I think that because it wasn't like she asked you a question, she just said "i know you'll do well". But of course that was not seen as a good idea either. Don't say "lets be friends," but leave room for communication in the future, like "would it be alright if i call you next week? All Rights Reserved. I was going to go live with her at that point, but she didn't want me to. I truly believe that love is patient and forgiving, and based on her level of contact with you, your ex still has a lot of feelings for you. He did text me the other day and said how much he misses talking to me, but still no call, we will see how things go, but I am not going to get my hopes up or jump into anything, he needs to figure out what he wants, and I need to move on. "So glad we ended things as friends, speak soon" Be her friend and allow her to express herself openly with you, and in time she may come to warm up to the idea of taking another swing at things. All women are needy when they are serious about a man. Then i talked to her again and BAM back to not eating enough, but this time not so bad. It seems to me he's keeping you there at arms length so that he can go off and play around with other girls til his heart's content and then if he gets bored or realises he's made a mistake then he knows you're there. But now you're still moping, so that can't have helped. I guess you're maybe perversly pleased to see that he looked like **** down at work?! What does a guy mean when he suddenly texts you dont have to text everyday and put xx at the end of a message ? I think that's all the encouragment you perhaps need at the mo? I lost a bunch of weight! I knew she wasnt going but her friend was there and i think she might think i went to try and see her, which i didnt. I just want to know about this text message. I can. We met up last week and i explained to her at which point i started to love her, why i was different before and that i had grown up and now was in a good place. YOU are the girl 2. Your at an age where you feel invincible at times .. You have to just learn to live with it and eventually realise that you have to do other important stuff in your life even though you feel like doing nothing and moping around thinking about her. ``You just weren't ready to be the man she wanted at that time.``. I have since realised you cant date people because u just think of ur ex!! Do you? I wouldn't worry what she'll think if you don't reply. Yeah, I used to go to the gym 3-4 times a week before the break up. What do you do in your free time? I have been seeing this girl for 5 months and last night she told me that I needed to figure things out, and that it would be okay to date other girls because I'm hesitant on committing to her. I think it's much fairer to say either "i want to be with you" or "i don't want to be with you". It'll be the best way forward for you. You're clearly really tired at the moment, and trust me not having enough sleep is not going to help your mind function. Thanks so much for the encouragement, I hear what you are both saying. So we ended up together, but I realized 2-3 weeks later, that I don't love her. I know that probably does not help much at this early stage, but i don't think there's really another answer to that one. You said you stayed in bed for 4-5 weeks. You are feeling down that after all that you were ready to give.. he was not willing to commit 3. you are wondering whether he'll regret it after thinking for sometime and come back to you. Everything happens for a reason right? When i was in this kinda limbo position but with still some hope i went down the gym regularly, i ate fine and i put on some bulk. She can't resist a good sample, a margarita, a new HIIT class, or an easy laugh. A guy broke my heart by dumping me after 1.5 years of dating. You've done well not to have any contact with her for 3 weeks. Since we met up a week ago and ended there has been no contact from either of us. Stop thinking of her like some bargain. It's constant and you can never escape it, it only starts going with time (unless you reconcile). Have fun and when you aren't looking for it, love will come. And that's not what you want to be is it. I'm struggling hard to do my daily stuff, even though I know deep down sitting down mopping will get me no where! Having said that i am being slightly hypercritical here after i've just told you i've had to leave work early (but i had at least done my work that needed to be done for the day first). I know Adam does and I know he will never forget, yours won't either. I said "look i don't want you to ring me up one day and say guess what i've got engaged, which is something you would be quite happy to say/hear if you were normal friends with someone, so we can't be". Since the break up I have told her how much I loved her, how I wanted to commit to her and all that. Do you think i should just not contact her, get on with my life and see if she contacts me? What ever happened in your last relationships she is not them. I did with my ex cos of the long distance, but then i realised i wanted to be with her cos i missed her terribly. "Berlin was amazing! I break down all the time, and I too can't focus on my school work, I know that it is important but I feel so lost and alone, I hate being alone and I hate that I have lost my best friend. All I can advise today is to not spend time making her jealous or playing games to see where her affections lie. It was seriously tough to take. At the end of the session i can think "right good i just achieved something there, i did well, and even though she was on my mind, she wasn't the only thing on it and i got through it". If so i'd recommend it, that's what i do. That's exacly my situation. 4 Ways To Tell You Are Not Ready for A Relationship. So esentially it's like he's got you there as a fall back. You've gotta have someone who thinks you're worth having as much as you thik they are, the feelings have to be mutual, there has to be a mutual respect and i don't think she had the respect for me that i think i deserved. Other times, you end up seriously regretting your decision. When you both live together then you can say you have something real.. she's 18. lives with mom I assume. Ugh, I don't know, it will hurt less over time, it has only been one week, I am young only going to be 21 this year I'm sure someone else will show interest eventually. And it gives you a buzz when you've done a training session, and there might be some nice hot chicks down there! If she asks how are you? You just weren't ready to be the man she wanted at that time. Sorry it has taken me a while to respond--these threads just get buried by new ones so quickly! 3.) She said she didn't think it was a good idea. I certainly find it kinda comforting. He's got a lot of reasons to be emotionally afraid to open up, to let you in, to let his emotional guard down. I wrote " I feel so alone" in the getting back section. 9 Men on Why They Regret Breaking Up With Their Ex, Sharing Your Inter-Abled Marriage With the World. I know the feeling of going insane over this and being desperately tempted to contact her, but take it from someone who has experienced this, it's not a good idea. I know the temptation is there, i do slip into moping, it's very easily done. 1. Look to prove my point, a few months after my ex split with me she made out we maybe could have got back together but because i kept trying to convince her she said "you didn't give me a chance to miss you" Ok so that's proof enough isn't it? If she rings you then just talk for a little while, be pleasant, don't talk about what happened before, focus on the present, but let her come to you. Your email address will not be published. If you lay on the cheese, she will most likely disregard it as B.S. Don't try to conjour up any reasons why you need to contact her cos you don't need to. Work's been terrible, i've barely slept (5 hours the last 3 nights, waking up at 5am every one of those), and i haven't been able to get her off my mind as much as i have tried. 1) The last contact i had with her was about mid december (unless you count a text on christmas day saying "happy christmas", which she replied to with much the same). Why are you studying your ego and how things look and come across? You just have to say right f**k it i know i'll be thinking about her, but i'm gonna get this piece of work done cos i have to, it's my life this and i'm allowing her to mess it up. And we're having to go cold turkey on this, which is a very tough, but ultimately, better option. How Can I Hack Into My Cheating Spouse WhatsApp ? We may earn a commission through links on our site. Is this a good idea, or just keep up with the NC? She should have been proud to have me as her boyfriend as i was to have her as my girlfriend, and if she isn't then i shouldn't even be bothering with someone like that. My advice: DON'T WAIT He knew exactly what he was doing. She was upset but we continued seeing each other regularly. I even have trouble concentrating at school and it's my last semester before getting my bachelors degree. Im concerned that at this stage, if it looks like im purposely doing something she will be less attracted to me as it looks petty that i didnt reply. Do/Can people REALLY feel that way? Just because you weren't ready to commit to her at 22 doesn't mean that she wasn't important to you or you didn't care for her. Its been nearly a week now since we spoke to each other but i'm really nervous. Any input on this jayspop? Is Anxiety Ruining Your Dating Life? I was seeing my ex for 2.5 years aswell. Stopped and told 'I cant' in the middle of sex! It's not too long when you have so much to say, Cori. 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