Give both time to learn, feel and process. Commotion at Lagos hotel as lady catches her man with another girl, video of her reaction goes viral. I have been remarried for eight years now, to a wonderful man who is good to me, but aloof to my needs or desires. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Community Rules apply to all content you upload or otherwise submit to this site. Now let him go. Sorry. He, however, added that he had no intention of ruining her business and tendered an apology. After divorce, most women also have to admit "I miss my ex husband," even after all of the pain their ex caused at the end. During a brief chat with Legit.ng businesswoman and owner of Kemzy's Collections submitted that customers aren't wrong to air their grievances online. According to him, he made his complaints and didn't get any response from her workers, which forced him to contact Lawani. Recently, I have been asking him questions on some self help books that he loved to read and about his network marketing company. He texted and asked for me to meet him in person. Take his words literal. I know how much effort you put into our relationship to try and make it work. But I sincerely want to apologize for some things that I have done that I regret when we were together and you did not deserve that at all. It was a rather unexpected break though I knew that we were kind of losing the Sparks a little towards the last month before the break up, but I thought we were trying to fix it. hes not coming back. My home is more like a small office than a home. News never stops. Stop texting and messaging. It is written specifically for women who got dumped. He is telling you two are done. 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Be a magnetic that people are drawn to, Hi. My ex contacted me after 5 months. This is the exact words of his apology text: Shortly after, Fayose returned to his Instagram page with a video in which he stressed that he has been a good customer of the restaurant for about a year. He might be missing what you two had sexually. It will hurt and be hard to let go but you are wasting your time! Chris is the opposite of Andrew, and thats why it is useful to read them both. The Reactionary Attempt. According to her, Lawani didnt respond to the message early enough and by the next morning, it was the first order of business she instructed her manager and supervisor to attend to. It has been 2 months - he's been texting me couple times a week, texts me when he's at a party, told me he's in therapy bc he wants to change, tells me about his weekends, texts me early mornings, sends me pictures etc.. but won't talk about whether he wants to get back together. She called me instead to tell me the gender of the baby. Times and space has forced him to recognize HIS role in things and that not everything was your fault. According to him, he made his complaints and didn't get any response from her workers, which forced him to contact Lawani. Be grateful he was man enough to own his part and apologize for it. No sex with your ex if you start being friends some time later. Hes probably going to fade back out. he's not coming back. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. Get to know your ex again. At the end i got distraction from my colleague and we ended the conv by saying take care to each other. If he wanted to get back with you he would want to sit down and discuss the things that he regrets doing in the relationship. Your ex is not going to want back a needy woman that appears desperate and lacks confidence. He says sorry and apologize for thinga that he did to me, he says he misses me n hope am okay after the break up. I was shocked when he callshe used private number and my reaction just kinda cool *cos i have no idea gow shud i react* i tried not to talk about the past, just how are u? I know that this isnt what you wanted to hear, but you need to see what is right in front of you and what he is trying to tell you without being mean or hurting your feelings. Learn what pressures drove him to substance abuse. Good luck. He has apologized and asked for forgiveness. No contact is one of them. :/. I think he is telling you clearly that he is moving on from this and as much as he didnt want to hurt you he is saying its on to new stuff now. It is rarely a miscommunication. My last message probably was a little too much but I just want to be sure what he is saying and I still didnt get any answer. We committed our time, energy, support and love in big and little ways. Is there mixed signal here? I could tell his apology came from his heart because he struggled to get out the words. This was the best 9 months of my life: Mr Ibus daughter ends marriage with husband for lying. I really really dun mean for it to happen. at least he apologized for hurting you. Registration on or use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement, Privacy Policy and Cookie Statement, and Your California Privacy Rights (User Agreement updated 1/1/21. I finally replied okay :) Im glad that he is not asking me to get out of his life, which his message sounds like it.. And I told him to let go of the unhappy things and not to think of it. In other words, your ex may have moved on immediately because are trying to fill their sex void with someone else. I am going through a similar situation. He has let you go. but you should move on. Stop contacting the guy. That means that he is done, he is moving forward without you. YOU need to do that, do not wait for him to do that. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. Work on your self, go to the gym, go out with friends, and just learn what you use to love before he entered your life. Ojo said she made sure to tell her workers to prepare a fresh plate of fish pepper soup as compensation for the unsatisfactory service encountered by Fayose. In my humble opinion there are four clear reasons for why exes block one another. Stop texting him. Never miss important updates! Emmanuel, who also works in the UAE city, revealed that getting Nigerian delicacies are expensive. A guy doesnt say its stuff that I dont want to bring up anymore as we both moving on. I hope moving on, I can be a better person.. Chris things that it is almost always possible to get your ex back. I think he just wanted to clear the air and apologise. -- HURT AUNT IN INDIANA, DEAR HURT AUNT: If you want a relationship with your pregnant oldest niece, attend the shower and be friendly. In my honest opinion it doesnt seem like he wants to get back together. He obviously cared about you or you likely wouldnt of even got that. If he wants to give it another try, he will contact you later on. The actress, however, noted that it became a surprise when other people started sending her the video from Lawani, and that was when she realised that Fayose had uploaded the video to social media. He, however, added that he had no intention of ruining her business and tendered an apology. 2022 Advance Local Media LLC. In her recent video, the actress explained that she was informed about the development by her friend and Fayoses cousin, Toyin Lawani (Tiannah), and she immediately requested for his bank account to initiate a refund. Hes getting his own closure by apologising and making this a civil break up so he feels better about himself. They may just be seeking to replicate what you two had intimately. This was simply his final goodbye. Growing up at times cant be painful, not only breaking ups are painful event. Recall that Legit.ng earlier reported that Fayose uploaded a video to social media in which he called out the actress for the poor service he received from her fast food joint. Privacy Policy and Cookie Statement updated 7/1/2022). Im okay if we are going to move slowly from now to get back together cuz i know we are both not ready yet. We do believe in the same goal and future, but something messed up in the way and we kind of get confused and frustrated with our lives, hence causing the relationship going bad. The is a huge character trait in good quality. You will need to either look to forgive him or move on in order to not be stuck in a state of limbo and suffer both more than you need too. But youre not listening. It came as a shock and I took about 12 hrs before I replied him. Is there mixed signal here? Unless you like living in an emotional desert, you will have to take charge of your life. You are already subscribed to our newsletter! Get the hottest stories from the largest news site in Nigeria, Tinubu, Atiku or Peter Obi? He has been clean for three years, free from the drug-related health problems and is not going to return to that life. He should be telling you how sorry his is for not trying harder to make it work and how much he misses you and how hard a time he is having moving on. Was he apologizing to make himself feel less guilty or was he apologizing to clear the hurt of the broken relationship so we can start afresh? My life has changed a lot in the past few years. My brother (her father) and his wife were invited. He didnt reply after which and suddenly texted me a long apology text that night at 2am. We have a business, a ministry, and I have a full-time job. You need to make him nostalgic, miss you, and for that, you need to bet cut out of his life. He is focused only on his wants and needs. He definitely does not want to get back together. If you purchase a product or register for an account through one of the links on our site, we may receive compensation. He was probably heartbroken inside too and was not comfortable to talk to me until recently where he started warming up to me. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA . Im trying to find a way to move on too. He is trying to nicely make it clear your paths are no longer interwoven, and its time to live your lives without the idea of reconciliation. What do you all think? This topic contains 22 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Andrea 3 years, 7 months ago. Hey, I have been thinking about how much I do cherish the memories we had and I do appreciate you. How long are you going to torture yourself? And it just might be not to be with him. Why am I still upset over someone I didn't even like? Why did my ex apologise? I hope you were able to move on. I dont feel like Im being treated like family anymore. It all went well until I told him that I was clearing my stuffs in the room and I realized that his books are still with me. Three years ago, my ex lost his mother. Ask a Guy: Long Distance Relationship Exactly How To Make It Work? but you should move on. But as long as he is positive to the possibility that we might get back together in the future, I have not much worries. I would suggest leaving him be for now. She called to abuse me: Ex-governor Fayoses brother drags Iyabo Ojo over N7k pepper soup at her restaurant. Popular Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo addressed her recent fracas with Isaac Fayose, brother of former Ekiti state governor on Instagram. But its stuff that I dont want to bring up anymore as we both moving on. Be the first to get hottest news from our Editor-in-Chief, Check your email and confirm your subscription. I have not after that last message. Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian man identified as Emmanuel Oluseyi, who lives in Dubai, UAE, opened up on the high cost of living there in comparison with the West African country. if you didn't intend to follow through with leaving him alone and not wanting to talk to him anymore then you shouldn't have said it's what you wanted. When a guy keeps saying you are both moving on and wishes you happiness for the future, he is telling you unequivocally its over. -- TORN IN LOVE IN THE SOUTH. My sister-in-law is now having a baby shower for my niece. You are now pursuing him, he feels it, and this is not what you need. he feels bad about his part in the breakup and wanted to apologize to you for hurting you. just got a text from my ex who broke up with me 3 weeks ago apologizing for hurting me. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc. That text was very clear when you reread what he told you. So do not reply, do not message, no social media, nothing. He has done most guys would not have done. My feelings are if I wasnt good enough to be invited to the gender reveal along with her friends and the rest of our family, then why should I go to her baby shower? Its been a long way and I feel like Im doing better myself emotionally. Its sad and hard and not fair. Very old post. He didnt say any of that. Although you care for him, the last thing you need is to wind up back at square one. he feels bad about his part in the breakup and wanted to apologize to you for hurting you. If we are meant to be together love will finds a waykeep happy btw :). He didnt reply after which. I cant just pack up and leave, but in my heart I want to go back to my ex. None so deaf as those that will not hear. I agree with others, he keeps talking about moving on. He is telling you not to. Neither do we. 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